Relationship FAIL!

I imagine the following happens more often than we think:

Boy sees Girl.

Boy thinks "Wow, I'd kinda like to ask her out.  But look at her...she's so busy with her career.   She won't have time for me.  I'll ask out somebody else."

Girl thinks "Why doesn't anyone ask me out?  I'd like to get married, but there seems to be no chance of that happening, so I'll focus on my career.  I have to do SOMETHING."

D'OH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Epic fail.